Dear …
Thank you for your kind words and understanding during this very difficult time we have been enduring. __(Name)__ touched the lives of so many and our family is genuinely moved by the number of people who have come forth to offer their condolences and support. __(He/She)__ and will surely be dearly missed.
In lieu of flowers, we kindly ask that you make a donation to __(name of Society)__ in __(his/her)__ memory. Again, thank you for your kindness and support. We all share in the deep sorrow of losing our dear __(Name)__, and now we hold on to our greatest memories of __(him/her)__.
Sincerely,